• Phanatik@kbin.social
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    8 months ago

    Having a general policy of “I just want to be left alone” is too complicated for people to handle.

  • bmsok@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    For me it’s about having something relevant to say.

    The urge to talk just so you can make a dumbass point contributes nothing to the conversation.

  • Spaceinv8er@sh.itjust.works
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    8 months ago

    I hate the notion that being an introvert means to be shy.

    You can be talkative, charming, and charismatic and be an introvert. It’s all how you recharge your social battery.

    I consider myself to be an introvert, but I am not a shy person. At times I can be, but that has nothing to do with me being introverted, more like being insecure or anxious in that moment.

    I love hanging with my friends, talking to new people, going to open mics or karaoke but when I do, I need time to myself, recharge, and be alone for a few days afterwards.

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    8 months ago

    I know! like what the effing loving fuck?!? shut up about how completely perfect your life is except when you have to talk to diane at the office when…/s

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    8 months ago

    You mean making the zone uncomfortable for them