That’s it, the title. I’m an American who goes yearly to Japan on a tourist visa, and I absolutely adore the country. I feel very at home with Japanese customs and lifestyle, and always wish I was still there when I return home. But it seems so insurmountable to immigrate to.
I’m not terribly sensitive to microagression, though I did once get called “white devil” by someone who didn’t know I understand a bit of Japanese.