Oof, single parenthood is rough. Best wishes and give the 'lil rascals some extra head pats.
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I mean most of my friends who have their own places live in 1 room studio apartments unless they’re living with somebody.
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Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL the first alternate history where the Axis Powers win WWII was written *before* WWIIEnglish
7·4 days agoHistoric sci-fi is certainly interesting!
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Free and Open Source Software@beehaw.org•Do you consider the free software movement to be an anarchist/communist project?
3·4 days agoI do not.
FOSS is the natural conclusion of public code having a negligible cost to supply once it has been produced. Ideally it takes IP out of the equation and allocates compensation towards development rather than rent extraction.
FOSS is a question of centralization & authority vs decentralization & freedom.
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science@lemmy.world•Ryugu asteroid samples contain all DNA and RNA building blocks, bolstering origin-of-life theoriesEnglish
26·4 days agoAn interesting hypothesis I read about focused on the era of the universe when everything was lukewarm. Literally an entire universe in the “sweet spot” for the building blocks of life to form and propagate.
The idea is that the molecules would form, and then once the universe cooled further would freeze and be spread literally everywhere in similar asteroids. The rare part would be a location sufficiently stable in the goldilocks zone to evolve advanced life, not life itself.
Definitely has happened but not often. It’s a lot easier if there’s a common ground to start at though.
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People Twitter@sh.itjust.works•Yep, young people on their phones are definitely the problem. Not dangerous drivers that kill thousands of people (mainly other drivers) each year.
2·10 days agoYep, unfortunately a lot of people haven’t experienced what good traffic planning, cooperation & educated drivers can accomplishes on a daily basis in many European countries.
In my experience, the worst and most commonly recurring offenders are phone zombies on e-scooters. Possibly due to being more dangerous than pedestrians and more noticeable than a distracted highway driver.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Asus Co-CEO: MacBook Neo Is a 'Shock' to the PC IndustryEnglish
462·10 days agoAm I the only one even a little happy to see the head of a major company mentioning upgradability as an appeal for customers?
Please do stick with two unsoldered SODIMM slots for your laptops Asus.
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World News@lemmy.world•Iran tells world to get ready for oil at $200 a barrel as it fires on commercial shipsEnglish
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Estimates of the global population reliant on synthetic nitrogenous fertilizers, produced via the Haber-Bosch process for food production. Best estimates project that just over half of the global population could be sustained without reactive nitrogen fertilizer derived from the Haber-Bosch process.
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Europe@feddit.org•Decision to turn back on nuclear was a strategic mistake, EU's Von der Leyen saysEnglish
7·11 days agoFor sure, wind is an especially good complement for hydropower, since the latter can store the surplus when it’s windy and release it when it’s not. Still, wind generation can, like other variable renewables, slip to nigh 0 production from time to time, at which point there must be enough dispatchable capacity to cover the supply/demand gap. Otherwise you get rolling blackouts in the middle of a -20°C winter. Not great.
Here’s a showcase of one such day in my country this winter. Average temps below -20°C (which means demand is very rigid due to heating needs) and the wind died down completely in the morning across all of Scandinavia & northern Germany, which meant there wasn’t room to import either. Winter prices on electricity ranged between 10-60€/MWh back when our nuclear plants were in full operation. Half have been shut down in the past decade due to political pressure from the green party.
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Europe@feddit.org•Decision to turn back on nuclear was a strategic mistake, EU's Von der Leyen saysEnglish
2·11 days agoPerfect is the worst enemy of progress. Right now the highest priority must be to get rid of the fossil fuel plants, and logistically speaking hydropower is simply the best. Mostly because of the built in function of energy storage and ability to load follow, something that the other variable renewable options entirely lack.
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Europe@feddit.org•Decision to turn back on nuclear was a strategic mistake, EU's Von der Leyen saysEnglish
71·11 days agoAs with everything, politicians are at least 15 years too late in their thinking.
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Europe@feddit.org•Decision to turn back on nuclear was a strategic mistake, EU's Von der Leyen saysEnglish
139·11 days agoI disagree. Next to hydropower (which is limited by geography) it has been the champion of non-fossil electricity generation so far. Still, the fossil fuel lobby is a powerful foe.
Simply put, we should invest in all non-fossil options, and where solar is geographically viable, it is great. In other places however, where peak electricity demand coincides with the coldest, darkest parts of the year dispatchable production is strictly necessary, which is where nuclear shines.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Did you drink alcohol when you were younger than me?
11·12 days agoTasted maybe a handful of times before 18 including being offered a shot of vodka once. I barely drink even now (23 y.o), maybe 1 unit every 2 or 3 months.
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Mildly Interesting@lemmy.world•How Norway Accomplished a Near-Total EV Transition - Almost 100 percent of new cars registered in November were electric
111·13 days agoThe answer is oil money channeled towards actually useful things instead of vanity megaprojects like in the gulf states.
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Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL: Iranian Women Graduate in STEM at Nearly 3× the Rate of U.S. Women — and Has 5× More PhD Students Per CapitaEnglish
211·14 days agoCongratulations on finding the Gender-equality paradox rabbit hole!
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To answer the question in your title, it depends on what you’re looking for.
When I was in my teens I didn’t know where I would be in a few years, planning for the future was difficult. The main criteria I used was that I didn’t want to regret a relation. It should be something I could look back on fondly and think “Yes, this was meaningful” even later.
As my life got a bit more predictable in my now early twenties and the road ahead more clear, this has shifted my priorities strictly towards seeking a partner for life. Right now, I have found someone who (hopefully) is it. Time can pass quickly, so once you’ve an idea of what you’re looking for in a long term partner (assuming you want one) it may be a good idea to not get stuck in dead-end relations.
situation specific part
As for the situation you describe here in your post, to me it looks like a huge red flag to be extra careful even if this relation can be enjoyable for the time being.
To be clear, what follows here is anecdotal, based on a personal experience with a friend who had a similar relationship with an arab where his family had the same kinds of reservations. Your mileage might vary, just make sure to not simply assume that he’s as open-minded you want him to be, ask.
In any case, my friends ex seemed like a very reasonable (i.e not misogynistic) person when I met him but things got ugly when she wanted to break up. His own values had been much closer to those of his family than he let on. Suddenly she was “his” and he wouldn’t allow her to break up. Not great.

Either everybody should be able to have beards, or nobody. Believing in a fairytale should not be tied to special privileges.