I was joking.

That said, I also have a religious belief in life after death, and that includes marriage, though I also believe we need to choose each other again in the next life. I didn’t really want to get into that in a random funny post, but there you go.

I’m cool with my SO not parting after death, provided we can still get the romance on.

As a strict monogamist, the only paranormal sex I’m interested in is if my SO turns.

We have (had?) separate registrations for bars vs restaurants, and there are (were?) limits on how much revenue from each source a bar vs restaurant could have (bars must primarily derive income from alcohol, restaurants from food). I haven’t seen the little signs they used to have to place out front that signified whether the establishment was a bar or a restaurant, so I’m not sure if they changed the rules generally or just that one.

You can’t stabilize any finances if you’re taking out payday loans in order to pay rent every month

Oh, I 100% agree. But in many cases, taking payday loans is a symptom of other serious problems in someone’s spending patterns and not necessarily an income problem. Maybe the car payment is too high, or perhaps they’re paying too much for food. Whatever it is, that needs to get fixed to end the need for emergency cash.

If you’re in the lower middle class or higher, there’s no excuse for it IMO. If you’re in the lower class, you’ll need to get creative (government assistance, co-living, etc).

you can just sell the supercar or downsize your house or whatever

You say that, but in many cases, they still end up net worth negative. The problem here isn’t with income, but spending, and you’re not going to sell your way out of a spending problem.

I think income divided by local cost-of-living could be, maybe.

Certainly. Economic classes are very much location-dependent. If you live in NYC or SF, you’d need to adjust the numbers a bit, likewise if you live in rural Mississippi or something. And there are calculators available online to help with that.

most people who are struggling financially are not in those situations

Pretty much everyone will say that though, because people are pretty bad at noticing the excesses in their own spending. If you’re not standing out as being “weird” for spending so little, then you’re probably “keeping up with the Joneses,” because the average American is pretty irresponsible.

This is a pretty broad brush stroke to be sure, and I’m sure there are plenty who are legitimately struggling despite a conscious effort to cut costs. I’m just saying that many, if not most, people who aren’t “financially stable” could make room in their budget to get financially stable, but instead end up throwing a ton of money down the drain due to interest.

Perhaps. But this article has nothing to do with left/right ideology. So while they definitely seem to be socialist, I’m not convinced their frequent posting is politically motivated, I think they just have a curated feed, and that includes socialist stuff.

I consider myself pretty centrist and despise both the political left and right. I consider myself Libertarian, and this election has left me really scratching my head because pretty much everything both candidates are pushing for the wrong direction IMO (I don’t like tariffs, value balancing the budget, price controls suck, etc).

So I strongly disagree w/ OP’s political ideology, but I still don’t really have an issue with the posts they make. If I think it’s leftist noise, I usually just move on to the next one, but if it’s a high quality article, I’ll upvote.

Perhaps, idk. It’s really hard to tell someone’s motivations just by looking at posting frequency.

Exactly. Just take solace in knowing that each emergency that wipes out your e-fund could have been devastating debt, and the e-fund is doing its job.

Agreed. I studied the Koran alongside the Bible (and some other texts) in high school when we studied religions of other cultures.

Eh, I could see having a few on hand to be useful for religious studies or whatever. But they certainly don’t need US legal documents in the same book…

must include copies of the Pledge of Allegiance, Declaration of Independence, U.S. Constitution, and the Bill of Rights

Um, why does the Department of Education need that many bibles? And why does a bible need any of this?

A basic bible should cost well under $20. Screw this corruption nonsense.

Ideas:

• donations - these need to actually go toward Firefox development, they don’t, so I don’t donate
• paid services (e.g. their white-labeled VPN, they could also white-label Tuta or Proton services)
• and add-on that pays sites to not see ads (my preference)
• funding of privacy-oriented startups - they have something like this, so do more of it

Eh, I care about a third: browser engine diversity. If they drop Gecko, I’m out, there’s literally nothing left to keep me here.

Eh, they’ve been speedrunning this for years, this is just the most efficient way to get to the end goal of complete ruin.

I have a few alternative ideas, but I honestly don’t think they’re interested in hearing them.

Hmm… 39 years?

Cool, they banned my account some years ago and nothing of value was lost. And I don’t think I even did anything to violate their rules, I only used it to pay rent for a few years and a handful of eBay purchases. My best guess is that someone “hacked” my account (my PW was pretty bad and in multiple breaches), but I tried logging in after years of not using it and couldn’t do anything with it.

But yeah, nothing of value was lost. I haven’t needed PayPal for years and don’t need it now. Just say no and pay directly on whatever site you’re buying at. I’ve bought tons of stuff from eBay and other online sites for years and it has never been an issue.

So screw 'em, just don’t use their service.

Fair. Here are some that I find to be pretty consistently competitive:

• Vultr
• DigitalOcean
• Hetzner

I’ve used each and liked each. They’re rarely the absolute cheapest, but they are usually competitive at all tiers with no pretty much no shenanigans. I’m currently with Hetzner, which has been good for the few months I’ve been with them, but I’ve spent multiple years with the other two.

No, we avoid our local Kroger store (different name here), but when we go, I use my parents’ number since they go there a lot and frequently use the fuel rewards. Our local grocery is supplied by Associated Food stores, which has the “Food Club” and related store brands.

The main options in my area (Utah) are:

• Kroger sub-brand Smith’s - not very convenient in my area, but the stores are large and have everything
• Associated Food brands - smaller, more plentiful stores
• Walmart/Sam’s - I avoid like the plague, but they’re just as plentiful as AF brands
• Target - crap quality and high prices, not an option at all
• Costco - good selection and great quality for the price
• random specialty shops - higher price, but niche selection

Most of our spending goes to Costco, most of the rest goes to specialty shops, and we fill in the gaps with the local grocery chain. We spend something like $100/month at the grocery store, so it’s not worth interacting with their loyalty program.

Got pulled aside by my boss for being a bit lazy, which is totally fair (I’ve been coasting a bit). But by some miracle, he gave me a positive review for the year. I think what that means is that he was considering me for promotion, but didn’t feel I was ready.

I’m at the point in my career where promotions are pretty rare (like every 5-8 years instead of 2-5 years), so I’m going to push this year to lock in that promotion and then probably dial it back down a bit. Doing the math, a promotion doesn’t meaningfully change my FI date (at most a year), but having that higher title might give me more leverage when I either change jobs or ask to reduce my hours, since I’d be in a more advisory role than a “doing things” role. I still want to work when FI, so I’m hopeful this will be a good move, so I can just drop most of the “doing things” bits and keep the advisory bits (I’ll shift the “doing things” to hobbies and whatnot).

Anyway, this year could end up being pivotal for me. I should be getting an extra week of vacation as well due to seniority as well, so we’re also thinking of a big international family trip. I usually don’t use all my vacation as-is, so I’ll probably take some more random vacations and whatnot just to get a taste of FI (e.g. go mountain biking when everyone else is working).

That makes a ton of sense. To add some numbers to it:

1. $1k in the bank - should be enough for any one emergency
2. 1 month e-fund - no longer impacted by payday being late
3. 3 month e-fund

Getting to step 1 can be very difficult, especially for the lower class, but $10 or $20 at a time can get there. But it needs to be intentional, and that’s really hard when working two (or three) jobs, so many just don’t put in the consistent effort needed to get there. But once that first buffer is there, the rest becomes a lot easier since you’re no longer getting pushed backwards.