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Cake day: August 25th, 2023

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  • Not really, if you look below the bruise there is a small red stripe from one of the hits. They are usually longer and only a bit wider than that when they are still fresh. I really love those intense, sharp pains from a cane. The bruise got made with multiple dozen hits from different angles to get that nice big spot. It doesn’t look that intense initially, but develops over a few days to become a deep purple (pictures from later days have a much stronger coloration).

    I never used rattan, so I can’t really compare the two. From what I can gather it’s a type of wood/stick? Carbon doesn’t bend at all, so the force you use translates really well onto the skin. I’ll see if I can try using rattan soon to make a proper comparison







  • Well, I’m a trans woman. Most people I date are trans woman. If you take testosterone blockers as part of a hormone feminization therapy you are going to inevitably loose some penile functionality. So penetrative sex is not very usual for me. But I prefer doing BDSM activities way more anyways. Due to that sex doesn’t really end with somebody cumming, but whenever everybody is too exhausted to continue instead.

    Overall I would consider that comparatively unusual, especially the kind of kinks that make up most of it



  • They originally got me into Mastodon as a federated service. I later fled Reddit and stumbled upon Lemmy as an alternative and really liked the Fediverse aspects of it. I recommended it to others and mentioned I had made that switch a few times, so some of my friends tried it out too and made accounts.

    I know some still use it rarely and I know they know my account, so I didn’t want to run that risk of posting this on my main


  • Gonna use a spoiler here because of rather uncomfortable content

    CW: Rape, abuse

    A while back I got sexually abused by somebody and somehow made the stupid decision to just continue that as a “friendship+” for months. Only after a while I realized that this was truly fucked up and that I gave a bunch of consent to things I shouldn’t have given it to. Definitely made me learn to prioritize myself in the hardest way possible. He got really manipulative about me putting a stop to it too, which really sucked




  • While I talk about the effects, I haven’t told many people about the hypersexuality itself. I fear they might get the wrong ideas, like thinking I might not be able to consent or that I’m not interested in romantical stuff because of it. Both are wrong, but too easy to imagine from the definition.

    Did you have any experiences that made you think about having this? Or what suspicions are you talking about?