• Dagnet@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    Nobody is gonna comment how weird it is that she went to his place unannounced and sneaked into his room to spy on him instead of ringing the door bell or calling for him when she enters?

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      6 months ago

      she has a key and didn’t want to wake him. It’s not weird if they’re close

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        6 months ago

        Absolutely. If you’re dating for 6+ months, you get keys and the expectation not to wake someone when they might be sleeping. Respecting boundaries is sexy as fuck.

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        6 months ago

        She has a key, they are close and somehow she is doubting the relationship cause she saw him do silly things when he thought he was alone?

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          6 months ago

          Interestingly, successful relationships require making mistakes, accepting them, and growing. If she hadn’t learned that now, she will.

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            6 months ago

            Nobody made a mistake here though? She just needs to chill, if the biggest worry she has is how silly her boyfriends can be when alone then she already has the perfect relationship

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              6 months ago

              Well, she seems to have maybe made a mistake in judging it… …but, that’s natural. It takes time for people to become comfortable with ‘weird’ things. There aren’t as many examples of people being quirky as there are of people being image obsessed, and that’s hard for some people to shake.

              But overall, agreed.