• dudinax
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    20 days ago

    What’s with the slut shaming? I thought we liked sluts.

    • Dasus@lemmy.world
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      19 days ago

      Well, people like dogs, but generally being compared to one os considered an insult in most cultures.

      Hypocritical, but what can you do.

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        19 days ago

        Historically sure. But pup play with a praise kink is growing from a fetish to a full on counter-culture. Who’s a good [boy/girl/pup]?

        This addresses the “what can you do” bit. We can turn their shame into a game and mock their mockery. Even without the slutshame/slutpride aspect, pup play often is fully nonsexual for a lot of pup groups and is a great way for lonely adults to meet new people, socialize, and remember to play.

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      19 days ago

      I never got this. The people in my life who call themselves sluts are some of the warmest most caring people in my life. I have to remember not to call people slut as a compliment most of the time because of the people I know who choose that title for themselves