I need some advice from the internet;

I haven’t been dating for quite a few years now, but I’m finally in a position where I can think about this kind of stuff. I’m a chef that regularly visits my local dispensery after work. Partly because of the cute girl working there with whom I’ve been chatting quite a bit recently. Last week we stood there chatting for over 10 minutes while she left her colleague to help the other customers there. She says her and a friend are coming over to lunch at the place I work at next week. It’s not like she’s been giving me super obvious signs (or I’m just oblivious to them, which I’m not ruling out), but again, she’s super cute.

Is it appropriate for me to ask her out for a drink? I honestly don’t know if I should or not. It does feel kinda weird asking someone out at their place of work and I don’t want to put her in an awkward situation.

  • astraeus
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    1 year ago

    I just hope there’s some cute women out there that really like my hairy wrists (and total obliviousness) too

    • s38b35M5@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      Dude, she’s out there.

      I never knew some ladies love hair as much as my amazing partner. Like, I’m talking to her in my towel after a shower, and I recognize the glazed look in her eyes. She hears nothing I say until I cover my chest or arms, then its like, “Hey! Don’t cover up!” (Actually, she just says ‘chest hairs’ and I know what she means…)

      She says its like she’s a 13 year old boy seeing boobs for the first time. Every time. And that’s how I feel about her too.

      And I’m not even that hairy!!!