For swapping to make sense both the husband and wife have to have the same level of desire for sex. The wife definitely has to be orgasmic. And then it becomes just a hobby of wanting a bit of variety of who you fuck. You really have to have the mind set that you are happy in your marriage but sex with others is purely an erotic physical thing.
I’m in a 20+ year monogamous relationship. I’m saying keep your head out of your ass and acknowledge that people have sexual preferences that differ from your conservative-ass worldview
If their yukking is pissing on your yumming - which is to piss on other people’s pleasures for the sole purpose of hearing your own voice, then I’m yukking too
Adults are talking. In fact, no children should be present here at all. If you got nothing productive to add, pipe down.
Lifestyles exist beyond the ones you’ve personally chosen to enjoy.
You do realize, that not every sign written in another language is talking about you, right? That’s how yr coming off. Tone it back and it’s all good, everyone moves along
Fella, there are plenty opinions I have, in fact, the majority of opinions I have, and this probably extends out to everyone, that simply aren’t worth sharing as they are subjective choices.
If your choice, this is just an example, is that you only like <165cm blonde lesbians fisting if they’re both wearing black and white bovine mottling, then guy, that’s great for you, but why jam up a conversation with any assertion that only from that perspective is it any good?
There’s a “for you” that’s left out of claims like you made earlier. It’s not that your opinion is wrong, or bad, FOR YOU. It’s wrong, or bad, to take your valuation and apply it as a measure of other people, be that, comparing their opinions of quality against your own, or worse, Imposing your decisions onto others - which humanity has a bad track record with. Way way way way way too many people think their opinions are heaven sent and society should contort itself to their reasonings - rather than subject scarecrow do any introspection or actual acceptance. This pattern, this laziness, just so happens to be insidious and will infect every sphere it can acquire a beachhead, be that, music or art appreciation, sexual preferences or proclivities, which color wireless drill, GM/MOPAR, and every religion to ever exist.
Live and let live amigo. Embrace our differences, without them, we would all be as boring as we all find ourselves (and we all find ourselves boring, we have too, we’re around ourselves more than anyone else: the very definition of mundane).
Who wants to live in a vanilla, homogenous, society where everyone is the same? If I did, I’d move to Alabama and marry a cousin.
I’m fine (emotionally) with recreational sex, we’ve done play with others no issues just don’t crave variety of partners, it’s the straight swap in particular I don’t get. I do understand different people like different things though.
For swapping to make sense both the husband and wife have to have the same level of desire for sex. The wife definitely has to be orgasmic. And then it becomes just a hobby of wanting a bit of variety of who you fuck. You really have to have the mind set that you are happy in your marriage but sex with others is purely an erotic physical thing.
Sounds like you want to have your cake and eat it too but 🤷
Find someone you like to fuck and you don’t have to worry about dumb shit like this.
Don’t yuck someone else’s yum
lol
if “don’t be selfish, find someone you love to fuck” is “yukking a yum” y’all are in way too fucking deep.
get your head out of your ass.
I’m in a 20+ year monogamous relationship. I’m saying keep your head out of your ass and acknowledge that people have sexual preferences that differ from your conservative-ass worldview
Now who’s yukking?
If their yukking is pissing on your yumming - which is to piss on other people’s pleasures for the sole purpose of hearing your own voice, then I’m yukking too
Adults are talking. In fact, no children should be present here at all. If you got nothing productive to add, pipe down.
Lifestyles exist beyond the ones you’ve personally chosen to enjoy.
You do realize, that not every sign written in another language is talking about you, right? That’s how yr coming off. Tone it back and it’s all good, everyone moves along
I’m not allowed to have an opinion on the matter because it’s not the opinion you agree with?
Classy.
Fella, there are plenty opinions I have, in fact, the majority of opinions I have, and this probably extends out to everyone, that simply aren’t worth sharing as they are subjective choices.
If your choice, this is just an example, is that you only like <165cm blonde lesbians fisting if they’re both wearing black and white bovine mottling, then guy, that’s great for you, but why jam up a conversation with any assertion that only from that perspective is it any good?
There’s a “for you” that’s left out of claims like you made earlier. It’s not that your opinion is wrong, or bad, FOR YOU. It’s wrong, or bad, to take your valuation and apply it as a measure of other people, be that, comparing their opinions of quality against your own, or worse, Imposing your decisions onto others - which humanity has a bad track record with. Way way way way way too many people think their opinions are heaven sent and society should contort itself to their reasonings - rather than subject scarecrow do any introspection or actual acceptance. This pattern, this laziness, just so happens to be insidious and will infect every sphere it can acquire a beachhead, be that, music or art appreciation, sexual preferences or proclivities, which color wireless drill, GM/MOPAR, and every religion to ever exist.
Live and let live amigo. Embrace our differences, without them, we would all be as boring as we all find ourselves (and we all find ourselves boring, we have too, we’re around ourselves more than anyone else: the very definition of mundane).
Who wants to live in a vanilla, homogenous, society where everyone is the same? If I did, I’d move to Alabama and marry a cousin.
I’m fine (emotionally) with recreational sex, we’ve done play with others no issues just don’t crave variety of partners, it’s the straight swap in particular I don’t get. I do understand different people like different things though.