I have a few erotic short stories I’m working on, and in one of them I’ve arrived to the sex scene. During outlining it, I questioned if the guy should cum multiple times. Is it hotter if they don’t, or does the lack of realism take you out of the story?

Are there any other porn-logic tropes in stories that turn you on or off?

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    10 months ago

    No, definitely not. I used to be sort of one and done but figured out it was situational - my ex was a quick guy and would always get me off first before fucking. But I found it frustrating because then I’d get turned on again but never even close to cumming again because he was fast.

    Old guys take longer, and a bout of bladder infections put me off receiving oral, so generally now with the husband we start with PIV, which lets me build up to the O from indirect stimulation, and that is usually multiple, I don’t come all the way down between them.

    The squirting ones are closer to that second type but the stimulation needed to make that happening is overstimulating like direct clitoral (presumably because it’s direct GSpot, it’s that upward fingering that gets me there) and very uncomfortable to continue after cumming. I don’t really come down, though, no.

    That zonked out feeling I really haven’t gotten since I figured out how to get multiples. It’s more like I eventually get exhausted.

    I kinda think guys get fixated on squirting because they understand it, women kinda get obsessed with learning to cum from PIV, having finally learned both, I would still say the most physically intense and less likely to be multiple is direct clitoral one, so outside fingering, oral, vibrator sort of thing.

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      10 months ago

      Thanks for caring enough to correct me, and being open minded enough to share.