• -RJ-@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    Person 1: Is your friend Bob coming over? Person 2: No, they can’t make it, they’re busy

    One Bob, and we all know it’s one Bob, no confusion. Look for context. It’s not that hard.

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      Person 1: Are Bob and Janice coming over? Person 2: They can’t make it.

      Sometimes additional context is needed.

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        9 months ago

        Your example is unambiguously plural. It’s not a good illustration of “they” creating confusion.

        It’s truly not a problem. I could contrive a reason to talk about a couple (they plural) and a nonbinary person (they singular) and end up with sentences where you don’t know which I’m referring to, but the exact same issue happens if I’m telling a story about two “he” or “she” subjects. And it’s solved in the same way.

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        Person 1: Are Bob and Janice coming over? Person 2: They can’t make it.

        Alternative:

        Person 1: Are Alice and Janice coming over? Person 2: She can’t make it.

        Alternative:

        Person 1: Are Alice and Janice coming over? Person 2: Alice can’t make it.

        This is far less difficult than you’re trying to force it to be.

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          Bad example. Having the ‘but’ in there introduces ambiguity. We can’t tell if Janice is contradicting Bob and saying they both won’t be coming, or if it’s just Janice speaking for themself.

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            Agreed it’s a bad example. When already using the specific identifier of names, using general identifiers isn’t needed, and is rarely done. Most people would just say Bob is coming but Janice can’t make it.