Learning to not do this was an important part of my mental health journey. I’ve come to realize I was raised by some very negative people. Very nice people that I see regularly, but always looking for something to complain about rather than something to appreciate.
I understand this to some extent. I however wasn’t raised by nice people. When I cut contact with them I got better and discovered I didn’t have to like something someone else did for it to be good for them.
Learning to not do this was an important part of my mental health journey. I’ve come to realize I was raised by some very negative people. Very nice people that I see regularly, but always looking for something to complain about rather than something to appreciate.
I understand this to some extent. I however wasn’t raised by nice people. When I cut contact with them I got better and discovered I didn’t have to like something someone else did for it to be good for them.