If you are depressed and find your life monotone and unfulfilling (which I donât know about them, but if you make a post like that on 4chan, that might be an indicator), knowing your relative privilege probably wonât make you happier.
How so? I mean, they seem to have been successful, in a sense, and nothing bad seems to have happened, but when you say ânothing happenedâ I feel like you want to say that literally nothing else of significance happened, neither good nor bad. Seems like a rather boring, depressing life.
Yes but you wouldnât happy with that kind of outcome, youâd spend every day hoping for something more interesting to happen, perhaps even hoping for a loss to make things interesting after a certain point.
I feel like Lucky usually has the connotation that you wanted the outcome.
Also, they might have helped their chances by being very competent, but having very low people skills. I feel like that would improve the probability of something like this.
If you are depressed and find your life monotone and unfulfilling (which I donât know about them, but if you make a post like that on 4chan, that might be an indicator), knowing your relative privilege probably wonât make you happier.
I donât mean privilege, I mean they are literally lucky.
How so? I mean, they seem to have been successful, in a sense, and nothing bad seems to have happened, but when you say ânothing happenedâ I feel like you want to say that literally nothing else of significance happened, neither good nor bad. Seems like a rather boring, depressing life.
Imagine playing blackjack for decades and getting a standoff every single hand. Itâd seem boring, but itâd really be extraordinary.
Also luckier than the average.
Yes but you wouldnât happy with that kind of outcome, youâd spend every day hoping for something more interesting to happen, perhaps even hoping for a loss to make things interesting after a certain point.
I feel like Lucky usually has the connotation that you wanted the outcome.
Also, they might have helped their chances by being very competent, but having very low people skills. I feel like that would improve the probability of something like this.
I get what youâre saying but even if someone getting struck by lightning is extraordinary, we donât say theyâre lucky, we say they are unlucky.