The dark Amit is back to play

  • gossipgirl13@lemmy.caOP
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    5 months ago

    Don’t ever let her make you feel that way 💜 I use to let it bother me ALOT. I just think social media is sooooo toxic for women. I recently was at Costco shopping with my hubby and I saw a girl I knew from high school. Mind you I hadn’t seen her in years!! I was SHOCKED!!! the pictures she posts online vs IRL. She was double the size if not more than what she put online. After that day I told myself I would not let social media make me feel upset about my own body and wishing I looked more like “them”. Learn to love yourself regardless of your mom pooch or not. You brought beautiful babies into this world and I’m sure you are an amazing mother

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      Thank you so much! I’m really working on it. I’m lucky to have my kids and I wouldn’t trade them for the world. I don’t even think I ever cared about my mom pooch until I started seeing it be a thing online. I just assumed it was what happened. I wasn’t ashamed until I was told to be. The body “positivity” movement can be so damaging if not handled with care. That’s my biggest gripe.

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        You know what else you may have the mom pouch but can Sarah say she is a good person? Does she really have a kind heart? No. I’m sure you could answer yes and that’s far more honourable than anything Sarah could ever say/do. But it definitely is hard being a woman. I myself don’t have children and I’m a thicker gal and some days it eats me alive. Hang in there 💜

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          Thank you thank you. 😊 I have a full and fulfilling life with my kids. Traveling and living in a big city with my teens and husband. It’s a lot of unpacking past trauma but I’m working on it. I love and hate being a woman. I’m sure I’m not the only one lol

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        You probably didn’t care. I didn’t care about my Mom pooch until Sarah made me care. The way she snaps hers on and off is the worst kind of mind fuck. She’s horrible. Sarah craves a body and edits her body that isn’t something many of us who are Mom’s can’t achieve unless we have surgery. Only one of my friends post birth kept a leaner waist (visible abs). This friend competes in fitness shows. I felt for Janette when she posted about her body honestly, saying she’d rather have kids than abs. Sarah would probably swap her kids for a 20 year old model body. Sarah’s pathetic.