• littlewonder@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    Cis-woman with female bits here. Sounds like I might be an odd one out, but I float between amateur video, digital hentai manga, and Literotica.

    I have to have porn of some sort to orgasm with my hitachi. I can orgasm manually without porn, but it’s not as full-body as the vibe orgasm, so I only do it this way when circumstances require it.

    I Netflix and chill myself maybe 2-3x a week, which is partially because it can take a while, and because other people, who aren’t my partner, need to be in another part of the house because the vibe is not silent.

    So that’s generally how much I use porn. 2-3x a week.

    To answer your question, if you mean the porn to bate session ratio is closer to 1:1, then I might win that over men because I use porn every time I jill off. If you mean a higher frequency of porn sessions, then men will probably win because I only DJ my EP a couple times a week.

    Side note: It seems like a lot of men can orgasm from photos, which is baffling to me. I can’t get to Planet Orgasm from that train. Maybe it’s different types of imagination versus a male v. female thing.

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      5 months ago

      Ok let me start by saying I LOVE the euphemisms

      I find it unusual that many women can apparently orgasm from reading porn, without any direct visual stimulus. So I suppose just different things stimulate different people. I can get off from just pictures, but it’s difficult. Pictures with some sort of tag, or comment, or other interaction from someone who is clearly the person in the picture? That’s way hotter to me. Even if they’re not talking to me, specifically, there’s still a level of human connection, like a verification from the person that “yes, I posted this photo of me and I would like people to masturbate to it”.

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      In my experience (which is limited, I don’t often ask friends about their mastubatory habits) most men have about a1:1 porn to masturbation ratio as well.

      It seems like a lot of men can orgasm from photos

      As in without any physical stimulation? I’m pretty sure that’s not very common, but I may be wrong.

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        4 months ago

        Nah, with stimulation. I’m saying I can’t get all the way to an orgasm with just a photo so it amazes me that a lot of dudes can. Maybe my horny imagination is just broken.