In polyamorous communities, it’s common to engage in relationships that involve multiple partners. While dating within such networks is well-established, I propose an innovative concept that adds a new dimension to these relationships. Initially termed “Tames” for convenience, this concept is now rebranded as “Partnerships” to better reflect its nature.
Partnerships Explained
Partnerships are individuals who enter into a formal arrangement with members of a polyamorous group, offering either romantic or sexual companionship. They commit to serving and supporting all members of the polycule for the duration of their lives. This arrangement provides a structured way for people within the polyamorous network to engage with external partners who play a significant role in their lives.
The Concept of Marriage Within the Polycule
A unique feature of this model is that if a member of the polyamorous group develops deep feelings or falls in love with a Partnership, they have the option to marry that Partnership. This possibility allows for formal recognition of a significant romantic bond, even as the Partnership continues to fulfill their role within the broader polyamorous network.
Benefits and Considerations
This approach offers several benefits:
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Enhanced Relationship Dynamics: It provides an opportunity for meaningful romantic or sexual connections outside the primary polyamorous relationships while maintaining the integrity of the network.
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Flexibility in Commitment: Members can formally commit to their Partnerships through marriage, acknowledging and celebrating their special connection.
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Clear Boundaries: It allows Partnerships to maintain their role within the polycule while fostering additional intimate relationships.
This model introduces a structured yet flexible way to manage relationships within polyamorous groups, enriching the experience for all involved.
Mainly for like closed polys yk
To be completely transparent, there are two individuals within my partnership network whom I was certain I wanted to marry. However, given my deep capacity for love and connection, it would not surprise me if I ultimately find myself wanting to marry many of my partnerships. My affection for people is profound and encompassing.
You write these volumes and volumes about your feelings about the dynamics of this massive polycule with dozens of people but none of them seem to comment on any of your posts, what’s the deal with that? Maybe just a few of the ones you’re married to would like to chip in?