• intensely_human@lemm.ee
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    4 months ago

    Yes. As Bruce Lee says, don’t be tense; be ready.

    The optimal is to recognize that all situations warrant readiness for evil, which doesn’t have to mean actually seeing evil everywhere one goes.

    I carry a knife at all times, because I was jumped by a drunk guy while homeless. He threw me down and kicked my head repeatedly until others pulled him off me. He did it because I asked him if he could spare a dollar.

    But the other night, I was sitting at a traffic light. Three people walked by, two men and a woman. They were all giving me hostile stares.

    I rolled down my window and said “Do you guys have a problem with me?” and they just said “No you’re just so cute”. The guys were gay I guess.

    Realized I broke the rule of being ready, but not tense.

    I appreciate your reminder, too.