• idiomaddict@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    We can have dignified sleep, food, and bathing, and those are silly animalistic needs. Why not sex?

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            5 months ago

            I’d be interested in pressing that a little with people who consider them opposites. Do they think a plain T-shirt and jeans are undignified or formal? What about think fixing yourself a quick cup of tea or coffee?

            There will always be people who think differently, but if they view the above as undignified or formal, we probably have very disparate ideas of those concepts that we’d need to agree on before we could actually discuss the dignity of casual sex.

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      5 months ago

      Because sex is silly. Dignity is all about distancing yourself from the dirty and putting yourself above it. That shit just don’t work when I’m licking toes.

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        5 months ago

        I’m sorry, but I have respect for a guy who can expertly sex up his partner. A guy who sees sex as filthy and indignant? Nope, I don’t respect that crap

        Through my eyes the first guy has dignity, the second has problems.