Whether you have plans today or are just staying in. May your Saturday be an awesome one. Stay safe, keep warm. Peace!

  • just_kitten@aussie.zoneEnglish
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    I made it to Sydney for my birthday today and the weather really put on a show. Short sleeves and sun hat and 500% good mood despite feeling like I nearly died a few times on the fucking roads. Getting thoroughly spoiled for the weekend. Made a few professional contacts this week too which was rewarding

    E: thanks everyone for the lovely wishes!! Somehow lemmys notifications weren’t working so I saw nothing until now when I’m just about to go to bed and thought I’d check the dt. It’s actually great not being on a device all day. I’ve decided I’m going to go on more long trips and get through the backlog of Conversations with Richard Fidler

  • omoikiri@aussie.zoneEnglish
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    Man. Both my parents recently did ancestry kits. My mum’s dad was adopted so it was nice to work out where she really came from and she’s connected with a long lost uncle (I think I’ve mentioned that in the DT before)

    But 90% of the stuff that has come out has been both fascinating and a headache. As the family academic historian, the job of wading through the shit has fallen to me. I love it but god damn once skeletons are out of that closet there’s no way to put them back.

    Through ancestry we’ve found out that adopted grandfather is likely the result of family sexual violence, which is why the family wiped all record of him and long lost great-uncle never knew he existed; mum’s mum is not related to her parents at all, not anyone else in her family. She’s actually the child of a young girl that lived down the street who was 16 at the time she had nana. The father is the 46 year old father of her friend; it’s likely that the woman who, according to the new family tree, is nana’s niece, is actually also her sibling, which means old mate had a sexual relationship of some kind with his daughter.

    I was just helping dad this morning. Populate his family tree and BAM. Ancestry gives us his grandparent’s marriage certificate, but also 4 OTHER marriage certificates in the name of his grandfather, with other women all over the world. And no divorce certificates. 🤦‍♀️ old mate had 5 wives and god knows how many children.

    Is it too early for wine?

        • landsharkkidd@aussie.zoneEnglish
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          My mum did the ancestry thing and all she did was find out about second cousins and distant relatives. Found out that my like great great great uncles founded the town of Creswick.

      • omoikiri@aussie.zoneEnglish
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        At this point I’m just like, come at me. Oh, incest? Is that the best you’ve got? Bigamy? Unregistered adoptions? Child’s play.

        You wanna know the worst of it all?

        Mum was always interested in the family history, but the older generations were VERY cagey about it all. When mum’s nana died, mum went around to the house where the will had just been read out to her grandfather. He told her, “your grandmother wrote you a letter explaining the family history and left it in with the will for me to give to you. But I was too incriminating to too many people, so I burnt it.”

        To this day, when me and my cousins get together we get drunk and ask each other

        What 👏 was 👏 in 👏 the letter 👏???

        • PeelerSheila @aussie.zoneEnglish
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          Burnt it? How dare they! That’s going against a deceased person’s wishes! For shame. No disrespect to your grandpa intended, but I feel almost superstitious about that stuff. As executor of my late mother’s will, there were things I didn’t agree with, but in the end they were her wishes and not mine.

          • oztrin@aussie.zoneEnglish
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            but I feel almost superstitious about that stuff

            You’re not the only one. Without wanting to reveal too many details, a will was Not Followed when the house came to be sold and the proceeds divided. Things that have happened in the families that were a party to it or colluded were… not good.

        • Taleya@aussie.zoneEnglish
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          At this point I can only assume the sorts of shenanigans previously only known to the greek pantheon

    • oztrin@aussie.zoneEnglish
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      hands you all the wine
      I know they say be prepared to Find Out Things with DNA tests, but bloody hell.

    • just_kitten@aussie.zoneEnglish
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      Dear lord. I’m the sort of family tree person in my family and thank goodness no skeletons like that unearthed on my mum’s side. Mostly just war survival stories or unfortunate alcos/gamblers. There’s one pedophile but that’s been known for over a decade.

      Dad’s side, we already had the bomb dropped on us when I was 18 and found out he had a whole 'nother TWO families in different countries and three children between them, one of which was born after his first grandchild. I’m not interested in finding out any more.

      But your mum’s parents, christ on a bicycle. I wonder how she’s been coping with the revelations too

  • CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zoneEnglish
    12·
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    My first tip is really more a superstition than a tip. If you spill salt, you have to flick some over your left shoulder and you might as well flick some over your right too for good measure because my Nana said so and she lived until her 80s.

  • Rusty Raven @aussie.zoneMEnglish
    12·
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    I just want to eat all the things, so I have assembled an emergency vegetable stick plate with garlic yoghurt dip. Hopefully this will distract me from less healthy alternatives.

    snack

  • TinyBreak@aussie.zoneEnglish
    12·
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    Tinyest is still not happy. We’re trying a dummy. He hates it, but refuses to let go till he spits it out. I tried to remove it and got smacked. I didn’t know he had that level of hand control!

      • underwatermagpies@aussie.zoneEnglish
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        I’m picturing Gollum but covered in granny squares :)

        My poor blanket will never be finished, and I’ll need to find another destress activity. Maybe I’ll try colouring.

  • Rusty Raven @aussie.zoneMEnglish
    11·
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    Hmm, there is a suspicious smell in the lounge room. The dog is blaming the cat. The cat is blaming the dog. I think going for a walk until it clears might be the best option at this point.

  • TinyBreak@aussie.zoneEnglish
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    Didn’t have “watch a Coup d’état go down” on the cards for my weekend. But hey, I’m here for it!

      • landsharkkidd@aussie.zoneEnglish
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        Russia. Leader of the Wagner group is looking for revenge against Putin and the Kremlin. And the other story is a coup happening.

        Edit: no wait leader of the Wagner group is staging the coup.

          • landsharkkidd@aussie.zoneEnglish
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            Ikr? Like it’s insane how this guy was the one pulling the strings essentially until Putin fucked him over, and then he said he wants “revenge” because I think one of the leaders got 2k of his people killed.

    • Thornburywitch@aussie.zoneEnglish
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      The really surprising thing to me is that none of the 'stans have done likewise. The 'stans are supplying most of Russia’s troops that aren’t criminals apparently. To the point where more than 80% of the males under 40 are now in Russia’s army. Like, most of their tax base and productive citizens. Prigozhin would do well to enlist their support. Interesting program recently on ABC RN about Trans-Nistria (part of Romania next to Ukraine) that was enlightening about the choices available to ex-soviet countries during this conflict. Prigozhin is clearly nearly as big a bastard as Putin, but appears to have the guns on his side for the moment. The abc live blog made the interesting point that Prigozhin took control of the Rostov airport ‘so that the planes would be shooting at Ukraine and not us’. Says a lot I think.

    • Hongohones@aussie.zoneEnglish
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      The only person I know in Russia is pretty close to Rostov. We fell out cos he wouldn’t accept me for who i am but I’m trying to reach out to him.

      No one saw this coming but he may have been a little more across it. Luckily he’s between Rostov and Ukraine

  • Sir_ListerOfSmeg@aussie.zoneEnglish
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    Screw it. Just ordered the triple cheese toasted sandwich with gochujang butter from Drom.

    Lactose intollerance be damned. I have my tablets. This is happening.

    I might have also ordered a chocolate pecan cookie which is basically a brownie in cookie form.

  • Goddess_Amaterasu@aussie.zoneOPEnglish
    11·
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    Today started off as a bish of a day. But I wasn’t about to let that keep me down. Made a successive purchase at UniQlo . Got a couple of errands done, the others will have to wait until next week. Did a bit of walking. Just need shower, something to eat then chill for the rest of the night I think

  • Force_majeure122@aussie.zoneEnglish
    11·
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    What Am I?

    I have eyes but I can’t see
    I have skin but I can’t feel anything
    I can be sweet but I’m not a piece of candy
    I can be baked but I’m not a cake
    I am best prepared in a microwave

      • Sir_ListerOfSmeg@aussie.zoneEnglish
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        Your morning sounds pretty damn good.

        Regret my dentist trip. New guy gave the mega cleaning of doom. Teeth feel raw AF

        • CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zoneEnglish
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          How good are clean chompers though? My morning has progressed to 2 pieces of toast and a chat about boys. I am tired now.