• archomrade [he/him]@midwest.social
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    2 months ago

    It just occurred to me that convincing someone of leaving a social media site is a lot like convincing someone to leave a big city.

    They have friends there and have grown accustomed to the vibrant and diverse activities, but realistically nothing they do or have there can’t be replicated in a smaller town, a smaller media site.

    They’re liable to put up with a lot of shit to stay with their community, but eventually people get pushed out and find greener pastures and a quiet space for themselves elsewhere. At least, that’s what I attribute to what I perceive to be a higher average age on the fediverse.

    I’m too old to find the constant stimulation and activity attractive anymore, and I much prefer the freedom to move around and be choosy about my media choices.

    • ellypony@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      Man I just turned 20. I’m sick of everything I do online being dictated by commercial interests. I feel like an old man. I just want my applesauce and my bingo, and to not be bothered and lumped into the white middle class 20 year-old advertising demographic.

      ( please stop bombarding me with scare tactic election ads google )

      • fruitycoder@sh.itjust.works
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        2 months ago

        I lied about my age online a WHILE ago and I’m going to let you know old farts get bombarded too.

        Its gotten better since my old persona died I think (you know over 120 is just out of most marketers age ranges).

        I hate ads with a passion, if a friend shows me a video and an ad pops up I show them how to use fence and ad blockers on their phone right away.