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minus-squareThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2arrow-down18·23 hours agoYeah but a lot of people claim it to be “weaponized incompetence” so they can punish their partners.
minus-squareThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down15·23 hours agoWeaponized incompetence was a term created to shame partners for not being able to correctly preform household tasks that are considered “simple” Like a husband not doing the laundry right just so the wife will do it instead.
minus-squarecan@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·edit-216 hours ago…you have something you need to talk about?
minus-squareThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·28 minutes agoI don’t really understand why people reacted negatively to this. It’s a known thing that people do and other people abuse in one way or another.
minus-squareHonoraryMancunian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up11·20 hours ago Weaponized incompetence was a term created to shame partners for purposefully incorrectly performing household tasks that are simple FTFY
minus-squareTexasDrunk@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·20 hours agoI keep trying it but I live alone so I end up doing tasks poorly then have to do them correctly myself.
minus-squareThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·16 hours agoYeah I’m not good at wording things.
minus-squareEheran@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up9·23 hours agoI have conflicting interpretations of those 2 paragraphs. Does the woman use it to shame the man? Or does the man use it to not have to do the task?
minus-squareThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down5·edit-223 hours agoThe original meaning was that the man was using it to not have to do the task. Effectively it’s both.
Yeah but a lot of people claim it to be “weaponized incompetence” so they can punish their partners.
They are what to do what?
Weaponized incompetence was a term created to shame partners for not being able to correctly preform household tasks that are considered “simple”
Like a husband not doing the laundry right just so the wife will do it instead.
…you have something you need to talk about?
I don’t really understand why people reacted negatively to this. It’s a known thing that people do and other people abuse in one way or another.
FTFY
I keep trying it but I live alone so I end up doing tasks poorly then have to do them correctly myself.
Yeah I’m not good at wording things.
I have conflicting interpretations of those 2 paragraphs. Does the woman use it to shame the man? Or does the man use it to not have to do the task?
The original meaning was that the man was using it to not have to do the task.
Effectively it’s both.