Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 month agoI have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.lemmy.worldimagemessage-square77fedilinkarrow-up1299arrow-down114
arrow-up1285arrow-down1imageI have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.lemmy.worldTanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 month agomessage-square77fedilink
minus-squareTanis Nikana@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up9·1 month agoI’m ace and sex-repulsed, so I don’t much appreciate getting hit on, but I mostly just hope I get compliments from other cool queers (which usually happens; it’s just cishets with their razor sharp focus and katalepsis-esque inability to see).
minus-squaresocialpankakemix@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up3·1 month agoyeah I always get comfy around queer people then some cis het dude sees that, comes in, and makes everybody uncomfortable, never fails.
I’m ace and sex-repulsed, so I don’t much appreciate getting hit on, but I mostly just hope I get compliments from other cool queers (which usually happens; it’s just cishets with their razor sharp focus and katalepsis-esque inability to see).
yeah I always get comfy around queer people then some cis het dude sees that, comes in, and makes everybody uncomfortable, never fails.