• i_love_FFT@lemmy.ml
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    1 month ago

    If you’re unsure about yourself and an official diagnostic would help you know, then id say go for it.

    If you know yourself, then an official paper won’t change you. It will only be useful for external recognition, and then that’s very dependent on the system in which you live.

    That being said, I’m just a person with no training on this topic. You should put your psychiatrist advice before mine!

    • just_an_average_joe@lemmy.dbzer0.comOP
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      1 month ago

      Yeah, its a bit strange that even now there are some downsides to having an official diagnosis. I remember reading about a court case where a father was not able to get custody of his children because he was diagnosed with ASD. So even though we pretend there aren’t any repercussions for having a disorder, there still are edge cases like this.

      Personally I think it stems from the stigma around ASD.

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        1 month ago

        In Germany? :o

        As a diagnosed German I can tell you not much changes, there’s virtually no therapy for adult autistics. I understand why your doc said that.

        Though there was one large benefit for me and it’s that after we applied for disability the Arbeitsamt got much more lenient with me and was actually useful in helping me find a job.

        In the end, if you can’t let go, seek the diagnosis, if not, take from autistic communities whatever little tricks help you, discard what doesn’t and call it a day. Much less trouble :)