• Arkouda@lemmy.ca
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    2 hours ago

    The core issue in your argument is being unable to define pedophilia as either a sexuality or a mental disorder.

    Either pedophilia is an inherent part of a persons sexual identity that is uncontrollable and unable to be changed, or it is a disorder that requires treatment which can lead to beneficial outcomes for the individual.

    It cannot be both.

    • Draghetta@lemmy.world
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      1 hour ago

      That is a fair objection, and I don’t know why you got downvoted - here is my upvote for what that matters.

      First of all I would argue that the difference between a “quirk” and a mental illness is whether it messes with your life, and pedophilia very much does - in that sense a sexuality can be a mental illness if it interferes with your mental wellbeing.

      Secondarily would say that whether pedophilia can be “cured” through therapy - making it a mental illness in your definition - or it can only be mitigated, is something that therapists know and I don’t.

      Regardless, it makes no difference towards the point I was trying to make: people who suffer from it should not be stigmatised because of it, as it makes it harder and scarier for them to seek help.