just wondering

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        1 month ago

        The point is to help this person temporarily alleviate a problem they have, whatever that problem may be. If you don’t want to do this, fine, but if you’re only willing to give money if they use that money in ways that you deem wholesome, that’s patronising.

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            1 month ago

            The problem is that you are convinced they’re going to buy drugs. You do not know that person, it is not your place to decide that.

            No, I do not agree that simply offering help is patronising.