• FaeDrifter@midwest.social
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    1 year ago

    There’s plenty of correct ways to criticize them, you don’t need to resort to ableist slurs my dude. We can be better than that.

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      1 year ago

      Its to call people retards when theyre being retards. Its only an issue if they are actually cognitively challenged

        • goat@sh.itjust.worksM
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          1 year ago

          What would you suggest instead? The word idiot? That has connotations for the intellectually disabled. Stupid? Same thing.

          • Lols [they/them]@lemm.ee
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            1 year ago

            i prefer vague connotations over explicit slurs that folks actually register as kicking down on disabled folks

        • goat@sh.itjust.worksM
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          1 year ago

          Absolutely!

          but in this case, I don’t see the use of retard offensive. If it was directed at people with actual learning disabilities, then yeah, definitely.

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            1 year ago

            You don’t really want to encourage the idea that disabled = bad, and you can use it as an insult. It’s still racist to insult a white person with the n-word, because even if it’s not offensive to them, it carries on the cultural attitude that black people are inferior. The idea is to foster a culture that is inclusive to disabled people.

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              1 year ago

              Are you disabled? Since if you’re not, you’re not in a position to be lecturing if disabilities are good or bad.

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                1 year ago

                It’s subjective of course. Some people choose to believe that disabilities are bad, and can be used as an insult.

                I choose to believe that abled and disabled people are equal, that belief is a core tenent of my value system, and I will lecture on it regardless of how it makes you feel.