I’ve come to the conclusion, for ME, that being productive is a mental health boost. However, I’m with you in that I fully reject the notion that "productive” activities need to be tied to financial gain, your job, your career, your net worth, etc.
I absolutely get a return on investment on that time, but in non-financial ways. I’m not sure how to put a price on mental & physical health, having close loving relationships, finding contentment and satisfaction with life, etc.
Like today, it’s the weekend and we don’t have plans. I need to move some stuff around in the house and build some tables. But then my son wants to do stuff together all morning. I’ve learned that it is a much more worthwhile investment of my time to build my relationship with my son rather than brushing him off or even getting angry with him for wasting my time (something I expect from the conservative parts of the extended family).
I’ve come to the conclusion, for ME, that being productive is a mental health boost. However, I’m with you in that I fully reject the notion that "productive” activities need to be tied to financial gain, your job, your career, your net worth, etc.
I absolutely get a return on investment on that time, but in non-financial ways. I’m not sure how to put a price on mental & physical health, having close loving relationships, finding contentment and satisfaction with life, etc.
Like today, it’s the weekend and we don’t have plans. I need to move some stuff around in the house and build some tables. But then my son wants to do stuff together all morning. I’ve learned that it is a much more worthwhile investment of my time to build my relationship with my son rather than brushing him off or even getting angry with him for wasting my time (something I expect from the conservative parts of the extended family).