• barsoap@lemm.ee
      6·
      3 months ago

      Maybe, instead of not asking those questions, he answers them in a way that you do not agree with? Maybe even based on factors that you overlook?

      I’m not quite as old as Leo but that frontal cortex thing is a very hard cutoff. You seem to be very focussed on the “18” thing, that’s not how human development and attraction works. According to the chart he has not dated an 18yold since he was 26, and hasn’t shied away from 24yolds.

      And, yes, he doesn’t want to found a family, doesn’t seem to want anything really long-term, at least not yet. Not for me to judge.

        • barsoap@lemm.ee
          4·
          3 months ago

          ok change 18 to 20, same argument

          Not really, the one number at least implies “I don’t want to go to prison”, the other is “these are too young for me”. Anyway:

          don’t tell me there aren’t any single 40yo women interested in him lol

          How many of those 40yolds are jealous, and what what kind of social narrative could they be pushing to make him stop dating that young. Also, how many of them would themselves have dated him with a 30 year age gap, given the opportunity.

    • sudneo@lemm.ee
      6·
      3 months ago

      And this notion that you should date only people your age where does it come from? It seems a completely arbitrary moral claim to me.

        • sudneo@lemm.ee
          6·
          3 months ago

          I would or wouldn’t do lots of things that I accept others might do. My morality is not universal. I leave this kind of thinking to religion.