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  • lazyneet
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    2 days ago

    I have a bf now, but tonight he’s watching comedy shows and smoking weed while I’d rather get more cuddles and gropes. Would be cool to get a polyamorous thing going but it would be hard for me to rope in more boys since my social skills are shit.

    • wit@lemmy.worldOPM
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      1 day ago

      Yay boyfriend! Is he watching those on a TV/couch? Just go to him and cuddle anyway! Put your head in his lap or just hug him!

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        1 day ago

        I cuddled him last night per your advice. I wish my cuddle powers extended to every situation.

  • wit@lemmy.worldOPM
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    3 days ago

    Me… meh.

    A very important friendship ended… I truly gave my heart for this friendship, helped this friend countless times in several things and… it just ended, with me blocked and him avoiding me whenever he sees me. He goes as far as pretending to go somewhere else just so his path doesn’t cross with mine. It truly hurts. Some of it is my fault, some of it is his. He was so manipulative, but at the same time, there were good things. I also spent quite a bit of money on this friendship… I feel like he left an emptiness.

    Hopefully better days will come.

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        3 days ago

        It does suck indeed. The trick is to keep busy. A bit sad that one has to keep busy in order to not feel sad but ya. Try to fill the emptiness he left with other things. =((

  • Wetstew@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    My fiance is a recovering addict and has been through a manic episode for the past couple weeks.

    He also apparently used this week too.

    He’s starting to finally relax, but god I’m tired.

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      3 days ago

      I am so sorry. That must be though. I truly hope things get better for you and your fiance.

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        2 days ago

        We’re doing good now. This was his longest clean period since his last relapse. A relapse is bad, but it’s never the end unless you allow it to be the end.

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          1 day ago

          Indeed. Setbacks are not the end-all. May your days be full of happiness!