• Shapillon@lemmy.world
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        14 hours ago

        idk for idiot or imbecile.

        Moron is a slur imho.

        But these are only my opinions and English isn’t even my first language so I might miss some things ^^`

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          14 hours ago

          The reason I bring these words up is every one of them was originally a medical diagnosis, that eventually became offensive so they changed it to retarded, which has now itself become offensive, which then became special ed/sped, or special needs, which are now going the way of retard and becoming offensive.

          The line of which of those words is a slur is entirely arbitrary.

          Euphemism treadmill go brrr

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            11 hours ago

            Yup but imho it doesn’t stop there.

            Once the word stops being used as a medical diagnosis it will slowly stop being associated with learning / mental disabilities.

            Nowadays not a lot of people associate saying someone is an idiot with any social minority so it kinda is just a disparaging qualifier.

            Retard just happens to currently be in that sour spot.

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              10 hours ago

              Someday saying “intellectually disabled” will draw horrified gasps from people who will berate you for not using “cerebrally unenfranchised”

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                9 hours ago

                I mean there’s already a school of thought that “disabled” has a negative connotation to it, that’s where the term “differently-abled” comes in.

                It’s all kind of a dance to not hurt anyone’s feelings.

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                  8 hours ago

                  Honestly “differently-abled” seems more like a media term than anything linked to either handicapped communities or scientific research. Imho it’s kinda stupid.

                  And people speaking on behalf of marginalized communities is a real issue that does a lot of harm. e.g. Autism Speaks

                  An expression I encountered helping my roommate work on their education master was “handicapping situations”. It’s a bit unwieldy but I like that it conveys that someone is handicapped by a combination of an ailment, an activity, and a lack of accessibility.

                  In other words, someone who’s paraplegic isn’t in a “handicapping situation” when gaming in a chair.

                  Or someone who’s dysorthographic isn’t handicapped as long as their not trying to write anything.

                  I use handicapped as a shorthand for myself but it’s still a neat concept imho.

                  I might be mistranslating some stuff since said roommate is French.

                  PS: about the dance, blame it on people insisting on using our disabilities as insults.

                  PS2: You’re always gonna hurt someone at one point or another. But it’s not hard to try not to and apologize when it happens imho.