Let’s say better late than never.

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    1 day ago

    I’m not really good at talks like this, sorry

    1000% more supportive than any Finn I’ve ever met, including my family.

    So yeah, compared to them you’re a fucking master, mate.

    That is very meaningful to me, thank you a lot. People ignoring it is what really gets me, not the personal experience. (It’s not the first time I’ve been in a psychosis due to insomnia/other factors, but when I’ve my meds at home, I don’t end up eating myself.)

    I am doing better, yes. Maybe not exactly well yet, but …

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      You are very welcome, I’m glad you’re doing better. And yeah, people can be awful, but you’ll find people who will be supportive, even if it’s just a few. My dogs help me personally, they know how to get me out of depression funks.

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        1 day ago

        but you’ll find people who will be supportive, even if it’s just a few

        Seeing as I’m 36 and yet to find such a creature who I’m not paying hundreds an hour to listen to me trauma dump… I’d like to politely advice you to not use any definite sentence on what I will or will not find.

        I would love a dog, I’ve had many as a kid. None from pup to gone though. My grandmas sofa wasn’t older than me, then when we got our own dog when I was 12, he got ran over by a truck (and I saw it very close, and picked him up after he was driven over by a full semi tire). Then our next dog was done which was a sort of rescue, but from a trainer. He was my best friend ever.

        I’ve cried more over my dead dogs than I ever have for any relatives.

        So yeah, I’d like to get a dog, but as I live in a bedsit and am kinda depressed, I don’t know whether I’d be justified in taking a dog… There’s better homes for pups to go to.

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          14 hours ago

          I’m sorry about that, I can be overly optimistic sometimes. And I’m sorry you had to witness that, especially at such a young age, losing pets is awful. I’ve lost many myself too, I get it. But I hope your depression improves, I know it can be really tough. Again, I wish I had better advice to give. I just hope that I could make your day a little better at least.

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            7 hours ago

            I just hope that I could make your day a little better at least.

            Thank for the empathy. I can’t overstate just how meaningful even a slightly empathic message can be. I’m grateful.

            Honestly, like had the guards had 1% of that empathy, I would’ve never been abused like I was. And Finland wouldn’t be as ass if the general population did as well.

            Edit who the fuck is downvoting you lol

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              4 hours ago

              That’s good. :) I mean, I tried spreading positivity on a political post once, and someone downvoted me then too. Idk, people are weird.