Harping on people to get married from up in the ivory tower fails to engage with reality of life in the dating trenches.

  • HikingVet@lemmy.ca
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    1 year ago

    Well, maybe they are looking in the wrong place. Or they just have unobtainable standards.

    The article treats it like a onesided issue, which when you are dealing with people, it’s not. There isn’t an easy way of dealing with this issue and the ‘men bad’ vibe this article gives off isn’t adding to the solution. It doesn’t offer solutions, suggestions or even a second viewpoint.

    • dangblingus@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      1 year ago

      I know you think that youre some kind of archetype of “a normal man”, but your anecdotal experience isnt really valid on the macro scale.

      • HikingVet@lemmy.ca
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        1 year ago

        Actually being aroace makes me anything but normal, but go on about my lived experience…