Reddit was so combative at times, it felt like I was getting into arguments with people on there a lot. I like seeing Lemmy grow and new people join, and I just wanna enjoy it and not argue with people about stupid shit. Let’s just all have fun!

  • lackadaisy@kbin.social
    3·
    1 year ago

    Yeah, I agree I like the vibe here. And now I’m a decade older than I was when I started reddit so it feels like I’m coming here with a different attitude. On reddit I mostly lurked – by the time I’d get to a thread there would be so many comments I didn’t really have anything to add anyway.

  • Lethal@lemmy.world
    3·
    1 year ago

    I hope so too. I stopped commenting on reddit a while back because it was just such an unenjoyable, unrewarding experience. Felt like users just got their dopamine by being contrarian about anything and everything.

    Those users will come here. Best thing we can do is not engage. Just downvote, block, and delete those people from your memory. They aren’t worth your energy. Embrace the amiable community instead.

    • Mysterious_Macaxeira@lemmy.worldM
      0·
      1 year ago

      Some of those users will come, but I doubt they’d want to stay on here for long. Many are turned off by the decentralized organization of Lemmy; they’ll probably just return to Reddit or go somewhere else to rant.

      • Dr_Middy@lemmy.world
        1·
        1 year ago

        I might end up going with both places in the end. Here is nice, but certain niches of mine work better with the established subreddits for them. But I’ll post/comment here simply because it will be nice when this place does become decently active.

  • wildeaboutoskar@lemmy.world
    2·
    1 year ago

    Yeah I like the sense of optimism on here. It likely won’t last because humans gonna human, but I’m enjoying it while I can.

    Maybe this is a good way of having a clean start

    • TonyTonyChopper@mander.xyz
      1·
      1 year ago

      I honestly doubt it will get anywhere near as bad as Reddit was. The majority of their users are going to continue on Redditing unless the site actually shuts down. Many many people simply don’t care about the way the company runs, they just load up the 1st party app and read the r/All page.

  • Finnagain@lemmy.world
    1·
    1 year ago

    I totally agree. I’ve only made one combative comment, and it was on an exceptionally hot take from a conservative community that was on the All section. The OP was downvoted to oblivion and was a mod of the community, so they were just deleting comments left and right that disagreed with them.

  • snailwizard@lemmy.world
    1·
    1 year ago

    I really like the sense of optimism and camaraderie here. I hope it lasts! I hated posting and commenting on Reddit because people there are downright vitriolic.