I think it was awful of @nytimes to publish. Triggering for me to read— not because the writer mentioned my nearly ending my life— but seeing a public person’s sexuality being discussed is upsetting.
I think the Gaylors should be ashamed of themselves. They are doing exactly what LGTBQ+ have fought against for decades now - people making assumptions about their own lives and sexuality - but they’re masking it because it’s Taylor.
I’m in the camp of anything that’s not public is just that - not public. Even if it were true (and all signs point to it not being true), then it’d be disrespectful of us to talk about it unless she made it public. Think about it, you’re going out of your way to talk about something that she explicitly has hidden from the rest of the world. That doesn’t make you a better fan, it makes you a gossip and not an ally.
/rant.
It’s all good but humans are humans and you’re don Quichotte fighting a wind mill. A gossip of her having a new boyfriend is the same for me as being lesbian; uninteresting and irrelevant on itself. This thread thought is what is wrong. Signalling it as “different”, That’s the problem. And that’s what needs to change. The fight should aim at making the gossip of her being lesbian or not as a boring and uninteresting - and not newsworthy. Because, honestly, that’s exactly what that is in a world of diversity
Last note, when I was a teenager in the 80’s, learning even a remote gossip of a star being “like me” gave me hope, confidence, and belief in my future in this world. There’s a lot of little gender queer 12 years old kids at the moment that would read this gossip as a ray of sunshine. So for me, I really don’t give a crap about @ million $$$ star who made money from stardom having gossips about a new love interest of any kind.
Edit: typos.