Which is really stupid because I went through awful shit too. It’s not exactly easy being Nonbinary, certainly not easy being both Nonbinary and autistic. I’ve had people tell me that I’m not really Nonbinary or not really Trans because I’m autistic and [insert BS about how I’m mentally ill and can’t know myself]. Then of course there are the times I dress mildly fem and people get mad at me for it. I literally had someone yell at me once “You will never be a woman!!11!!11” because I was wearing a skirt instead of shorts.

No one can say that I haven’t suffered or went through horrible shit. I’ve literally explained this before in the past and I was told to “stop being a whiny cis-snowflake” and to “stop appropriating the real struggles of trans women for attention”.

I think you might’ve come to the wrong community bud MeanwhileOnWorld is That way 👉 [email protected]

I’ve seen people complain about Beehaw in the past before while I was lurking and thought it’d be a cool idea.

Yes I’m aware the icon isn’t the best. I’m no graphic designer. If someone could find or design a better icon please hit me up and I’ll happily change it.

That’s not rare, that’s straight up raw.

That is true, many people can get violent even over something that isn’t their house. I think another important factor is also how other people empathize with the “victim” as well. If someone was the victim of home invasion people would feel more empathy towards them compared to someone who chased down a person who walked on their empty plot.

No one is challenging their ownership of either properties, but the situations are wildly different.

If that’s the case why don’t the other light green regions also have hentai, from the top it seems like you need a lot of radiation to get hentai otherwise Sweden would be covered in red hentai regions.

Maybe there’s some misunderstanding here. I’m saying it doesn’t make sense to compare it to a house because of the exposed public nature of it, not based on public or private ownership of it. The house argument applies to a private space where one has sanctity, security, and privacy. It would be laughable to argue it for an open field even if you do own the plot.

Lemmy servers are more like those empty field plots than a house you’d expect safety and privacy from, see where I’m getting at here? If not that’s okay. I’m used to not being understood by people, either unintentionally or intentionally.

Very literal map porn

Very much so

Then why is the little island at the bottom completely radiation free yet still hentai?

Not saying that at all, but good job showing your lack of reading comprehension, or you desire to misrepresent my arguments :)

You are comparing, by using the house example someone disagreeing with you on a public forum that you happen to own with someone making one feel unsafe in their own home, they are very different circumstances but I am separating it for one reason.

If I barged into your home and yelled at you I would be violating your safety and sanctity of your home.

If I came onto your server, you didn’t like me and banned me then I came back uninvited I would not be threatening your safety or sanctity of your home, such an argument would be a bad faith comparison. Do you see the difference? A home is a personal private space to feel safe. A lemmy instance is a public place that faces the whole wide world, one cannot argue that they have safety and sanctity in such a place while making it publicly facing like this. Which is why I say it is a bad comparison. Made in bad faith if the purpose is to demonize or scrutinize the person who “violated” that person’s server.

It doesn’t seem like a good comparison here, your home is a place to feel safe, and also a place that is private. If someone forced their way into your home they would be deeply violating your safety and privacy.

A public instance like lemmy.ml is very different from that, and to compare the two is almost a bad faith comparison since you’re implying that the Lemmy devs would be unsafe if someone came into Lemmy.ml uninvited or invalidated their opinions.

Lemmy.ml’s mods and admins aren’t endangered by opinions they dislike and people unwlling to respect them are not and will not be equivalent to someone violating the sanctity of their home.

Was this posted here before? I crossposted it to other communities but I didn’t see it here.

Probably doesn’t, maybe they don’t have mirrors where they’re from.