Thanks for sharing your story. Similarly, I’ve been with my partner for 10 years. We planned on having kids, never materialized because of reasons. Now… We are distancing. It certainly feel like failure. I just moved to a new apartment last week.

So far, I haven’t ‘duel’ the loss, except for some occasional irruption of either sadness (~95%) or rage (~5%). We keep talking daily, trying to part ways softly, we are both migrants in a new country, medium sized city, which adds some peculiarities.

I think we try to avoid the sentiment of failure by keeping an open mind, and a friendship. I even fantasize this is only temporary. But honestly, we have been on this for a while. Like after the pandemic.

Anyway, some comments in this thread really help me. I do want her to be happy. We both deserve the best, and frankly we may not be the best fit today. But we were powerful. We went through a lot, and we did good.

PS. Feel free to write privately of you wanted to share more.

Don’t know the study but any anthropologist can tell that’s a generalization on a certain time, place, and society. It’s (mostly) true, only under certain conditions.

Now did they study any other gender? Perhaps by Man they refer to all humans??

It also coincides (by a few days?) with GenP moving from reddit to lemmy (dbzer0). They liberate Adobe software.

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which racism? this is the Internet, no one knows you’re dog!! OR which breed, for that matter.

I use KDE and just reverse all the colors with a configured Custom shortcut.

Your bits are contamination. Go offline Steve, have a nice day.

That looks rad!

Ps. Pun intended, a German resident here.

Still waiting for the year of the linux phone…

But it’s the year of… Oh no. Rly? :(

Indeed. I feel that sometimes being the co-pilot requires stuff and I’m happy to provide. These are all different kind of intelligences.

Sure, anything at the extreme can be a real problem.

Ps. I have tons of anxiety and love theater. Also, martial arts. Both activities help me ;)

Thanks!!!

A cyberattack? We will know, in time. For now, this is an ongoing issue and a Carrington event is equally possible. Or, just a human error. Look for past outages, it could happen: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_major_power_outages

I just read that… You should edit to either remove or correct the tags. Anyway, I will remember that so no worries… But for others.

These produce excruciating pain, I prefer toilet paper :')

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Not peer reviewed though. Those are called preprints and not papers. Both would be research articles but the difference matters (to scientists at least).

There’s JOSS which is reviewed. I love it!

And third world war began long ago, even so while western europe tried to avoid just that ( 2008, Bucharest: https://www.france24.com/en/live-news/20220404-merkel-defends-2008-decision-to-block-ukraine-from-nato )

Reminded me of results at https://marginalia-search.com/explore/random albeit on a modern take

You’ve got my memes

Terf island strikes again!