rootsbreadandmakka [he/him]

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Cake day: December 22nd, 2023

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  • I’ll try not to make a super long effort post. I think much of the issue is that so much of masculinity is based on non communist values: individualism, competition. Men are taught to repress their emotions, to remain aloof. I mean the current “sigma” male, “alpha” male rhetoric, really most of the manosphere, is not really new stuff but is just the contemporary packaging of what men have always been taught, by fathers, mentors, coaches and peers. Masculinity is based on values that are antithetical to communism.

    My adolescent years were bliss, and because of this I do think a revolutionary masculinity exists because I believe that’s what I experienced then. But maybe it wasn’t so much a “revolutionary masculinity” but instead the antithesis of masculinity, to the extent something like that could exist among non-political teenage boys in the early 2010s. Tbh I don’t know too much about the definitions of terms and I think a definition of masculinity needs to be decided upon before asking if revolutionary masculinity exists. Obviously machismo is not revolutionary - is machismo the same as masculinity? Tbh idk. But yeah I do agree that masculinity as it is presently understood cannot be revolutionary, because many of its essential characteristics are anti-revolutionary. But I know from experience men can learn to be communal, collaborative, emotional, caring, without necessarily adopting more “feminine” cultural tastes or even behaviors (so long as certain “masculine” behaviors are not inherently anti-revolutionary). Whether that still constitutes masculinity, revolutionary masculinity, or what idk, but I do think it gets at the core of your question.

    Now what to do about gender identity itself moving forward I’m not the person for that. But in terms of what we need to be presently concerned about, especially after that “ideological gender gap” post last night (which I realize some people pushed back on a little but which also lines up with my experience - which granted might just be due to friends getting older and climbing their respective career ladders), I think it’s an attempt at an answer. Culturally non-masculine behaviors can be embraced from a “masculine” perspective.




  • I have officially cut ties with my far-right friend. He started pissing me off in 2020 when he, like so many others, moved hard to the right. Sometime in like 2021 I couldn’t stand to talk to him anymore, would mostly just talk when he contacted me, really for old time’s sake. He hasn’t contacted me since late 2022. He just called, I decided I really don’t want the dude in my life anymore, decided not to pick up. We’ll see if he continues pushing or makes a big deal about shit, or if any other friends give me shit about it (but it’s sort of an isolated relationship, not a lot of connections to other friends - there’s like one guy who might bring it up to me), but right now it feels pretty good.