I’m a bit of a stickler when it comes to making sure any XMPP server fully supports the full XMPP spec, especially since I’ve had the chance to experiment with a fully compliant server I set up myself.

Already got Element X installed, but looking for a reliable Matrix server to join before I commit.

I already have Signal… Agree it’s pretty good, all except that fact it requires a phone number to register an account.

I’m familiar with XMPP… I’ve experimented with the latest version of Prosody and Monal as a client before, but since my personal domain ends in .us, it’s probably not the best option to use to host a server.

I’ll probably stick with them til the bitter end, but like you I will bail if they start to enshittify the experience.

Well, there goes one of my favorite alternatives to WhatsApp… Looks like I’ll need to find a replacement.