• JackbyDev
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    7 months ago

    I literally did. I don’t see why you’d believe people have to mournful about an amicable divorce or why that would be narcissistic otherwise.

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      7 months ago

      They said “tossing away relationships like this is narcissistic” not “amicable divorce is bad”.

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        7 months ago

        But the way this relationship is ending is amicable divorce lol.

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          7 months ago

          The way this relationship is ending is throwing away a relationship. The divorce method is irrellevant.

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            7 months ago

            The author specifically stated they’re still close friends. So they’re still in a relationship. Again, how is this narcissistic?

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        7 months ago

        I’m still confused here, what’s the difference?

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          7 months ago

          The difference is having a relationship with the strength of a wet noodle and celebrating it.