Just a thought that crossed my mind today.

If I was to ask everyone that you’ve ever interacted with (IRL) what their general opinion of you is, what do you hope the most common answer would be?

Would you hope they consider you a successful person, physically attractive, smart, the best in your field, etc?

Personally, my answer is “A good, kind person. Friendly and helpful.”

Just wondering what the rest of feel.

EDIT: Based on the first few responses, I’m thinking I should have clarified better.

I’m not talking about your legacy after you’re dead, I just mean right here, right now. You have left an impression on people. That is inevitable. Surely there aren’t that many people that don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks, but I must admit, it is a valid answer. Maybe you are the person who doesn’t give a fuck what anyone thinks. 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • JackbyDevEnglish
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    13 hours ago

    I don’t know. I really want people to like me. I wouldn’t describe myself as attention starved, but I get upset pretty easily when I learn people don’t like me. I try to be a good friend. I try to be fun. I try to be the life of the party and a social butterfly but not overstay my welcome in the limelight.