This is why I hate when people have secrets in TTRPGs and don’t share them with other people out of character. If a secret never gets revealed, it might as well not exist. As a player, if I know your secret, I can help create interesting moments. Like if I knew your character is on the run for murdering someone in cold blood, it might be interesting for my character to let your character chase someone alone. It would give you as a player a chance to roleplay if you fall back into your old ways or you develop. Not the best example, but I think it still illustrates it.