• chuckleslord@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    That’s a really shitty way to talk about your partner. Is this supposed to be funny or something? I’m neurodivergent and can’t tell

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        9 months ago

        If anything, this guy is describing a healthy relationship. You don’t have to have a discussion where you share your heart and feelings about every issue. That’s exhausting having to learn and grow all the time.

        Imagine a friend that you joke around and are comfortable with. You would say “fuck you, I’ll drip wherever I want. You’re just mad because you have no drip.” That’s a healthy relationship.

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        9 months ago

        Ya know what? I was getting a bit frustrated by the reaction to this, but this genuinely brightened my night. I… don’t get people sometimes, but I do enjoy this place.

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      9 months ago

      someone can totally love their partner and still find some of the stuff they do infuriating.

      also my oldest kid did this. it’s infuriating! (but i love him.)

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      9 months ago

      Sure, that’s exactly what your comment history seems to imply. You are not using it as an excuse at all (even if you are)

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      9 months ago

      Bashing your partner is a really popular form of humor, unfortunately. The older sitcoms for example are full of it. It gets appreciated not because it’s great humor but because it’s a form of coping with the issues, for both the one making the joke and the ones laughing.