There should just be another category so that people who are not on this spectrum can more easily understand (and therefore, hopefully, empathize), AND these categories should be used more often.
Asexual kinda denotes ONLY having no sexual desires, lust, urges, etc. and therefore will just confuse people. Both Ace of Spades and Ace of Hearts fit this.
But if you actually are lusting after people… Then it would be better there be something different to help understand that, such as Sex Repulsed / Forced Urged (You have lust but absolutely no desire to do anything, like feeling hungry but don’t want to eat nasty food) or even just Low Libido (very rarely feel anything related to lust).
There is for example Demisexuals, which is for people who only can feel sexual desires with someone they form an intimate bond with (which I agree is a spectrum of asexuality as there’s absolutely no lust until there is) But there isn’t anything for people who do lust but either very little or are repulsed by it, as far as I know. There’s not an absence of lust in those cases at any point, just a lack of want or amount.
There should just be another category so that people who are not on this spectrum can more easily understand (and therefore, hopefully, empathize), AND these categories should be used more often.
Asexual kinda denotes ONLY having no sexual desires, lust, urges, etc. and therefore will just confuse people. Both Ace of Spades and Ace of Hearts fit this.
But if you actually are lusting after people… Then it would be better there be something different to help understand that, such as Sex Repulsed / Forced Urged (You have lust but absolutely no desire to do anything, like feeling hungry but don’t want to eat nasty food) or even just Low Libido (very rarely feel anything related to lust).
There is for example Demisexuals, which is for people who only can feel sexual desires with someone they form an intimate bond with (which I agree is a spectrum of asexuality as there’s absolutely no lust until there is) But there isn’t anything for people who do lust but either very little or are repulsed by it, as far as I know. There’s not an absence of lust in those cases at any point, just a lack of want or amount.