Hey Folks!
I’ve been living abroad for over half my life in a country where tipping is not the norm. At most you would round up. 19€ bill? Here’s a 20, keep this change.
Going to the US soon to visit family and the whole idea of tipping makes me nervous. It seems there’s a lot of discussion about getting rid of tipping, but I don’t know how much has changed in this regard.
The system seems ridiculously unfair, and that extra expense in a country where everything is already so expensive really makes a difference.
So will AITA if I don’t tip? Is it really my personal responsibility to make sure my server is paid enough?
You need to tip places where you sit down to eat with waiters, yes. ~20% of the subtotal before tax. Don’t be intimidated by those little tablets asking for a tip for places where there is no table service, there is usually a no tip button. Just relax and don’t hit a button right away. They make it a little smaller.