So basically I understand that dating a black woman is different than a white woman. She mentioned she feels comfortable when someone is open to learn and takes initiative to learn the societal and cultural things that affect her as a black woman. I don’t know what this means. And the take initiative part confuses me. And I’m not sure how to go about it I’m very open minded to learn but should I probe with questions or more so reading about it myself?

I’d like this relationship to go somewhere (so far had 4 dates) but her telling me that felt deep and I want to make sure I take right steps

  • dumples@piefed.socialEnglish
    22·
    2 天前

    Let’s ask Scrubs

    But talk with her about it and say that she is your first black girlfriend. She will be able to tell you what you are doing that makes her comfortable and what isn’t.

    • gramie@lemmy.caEnglish
      1·
      2 天前

      I’d love to ask Scrubs, but you have linked to some shitty advertising video. It doesn’t even continue on to the real video.