OldQWERTYbastard@lemmy.world to Mental Health@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agoChildren who grew up teaching themselves because nobody had time to teach them often become adults who are extraordinarily competent and quietly resentfulgeediting.comexternal-linkmessage-square105linkfedilinkarrow-up1537arrow-down123file-text
arrow-up1514arrow-down1external-linkChildren who grew up teaching themselves because nobody had time to teach them often become adults who are extraordinarily competent and quietly resentfulgeediting.comOldQWERTYbastard@lemmy.world to Mental Health@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square105linkfedilinkfile-text
minus-squareTubularTittyFrog@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·1 month agoOr just surround yourself with competent and responsible people, and shut out incompetent and irresponsible ones out of your life so you don’t have anyone to resent.
minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·1 month agoHow does that happen, exactly? Asking for a friend.
minus-squareTubularTittyFrog@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1arrow-down1·1 month agoYou just do it. If someone is continually incompetent, stop interacting with them.
minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·1 month agoTell me you’re < 30 without giving away the number. 🥴
minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·1 month agoHappy for you to have something come so easily to you that many of us are genuinely struggling with. Thanks for the locker room clarity, coach.
Or just surround yourself with competent and responsible people, and shut out incompetent and irresponsible ones out of your life so you don’t have anyone to resent.
How does that happen, exactly? Asking for a friend.
You just do it. If someone is continually incompetent, stop interacting with them.
Tell me you’re < 30 without giving away the number. 🥴
I’m 44
Happy for you to have something come so easily to you that many of us are genuinely struggling with. Thanks for the locker room clarity, coach.