Edit: here’s my thought process. Why do they need to tell someone they are not. Then proceed to say the most racist thing, lmao.

  • tiredofsametab
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    6710 months ago

    I’m not racist but buying a bidet toilet seat was one of the better choices I’ve made.

  • @[email protected]
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    2910 months ago

    Oh yeah, 100% of the time.

    The main reason? Those of us that do not believe in racism whatsoever are still aware that it tends to creep in subconsciously when you’re not paying attention. So we still have it too, we just try to fight it inside ourselves to be better people, instead of just being instinct-driven.

    Like, I was treated very poorly in my youth for race reasons, so not being racist has always been important to me. Yet since I never grew up around any black people, only really saw them on tv or when we drove somewhere, I experienced some trepidation the first times I was around them a lot as an adult. They’re just different. Talk a little different, act a little different, etc. I wasn’t afraid per se, just uncomfortable. I had to consciously work to process that to get rid of it.

    Anyways though, I’m quite certain there’s still some subconscious biases floating around down there. I deal with them when I notice them.

    • Jaytreeman
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      2110 months ago

      Bingo.
      People that say they aren’t racist don’t understand racism

      • glibg10b
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        510 months ago

        Are you saying humans are inherently racist? I disagree; I think some people are just raised that way and retain those beliefs into adulthood due to confirmation bias

        • @[email protected]
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          I believe humans are inherently racist, or actually discriminatory against those not considered part of our “tribe,” whatever that may be. We have a built-in “us versus them” mentality that exists despite conscious efforts to educate and be mindful of those attitudes in ourselves. The sooner we admit to subconscious bias, the sooner we can mitigate it by remaining vigilant against that kind of thinking.

        • @[email protected]
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          810 months ago

          You’re talking about two different levels. The subtle racism in media, others, and from simple ignorance will still have an effect on anyone.

  • @[email protected]
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    2510 months ago

    Unfortunately this tends to apply to most of the “I’m not but…” phrases that people say.

    • @[email protected]OP
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      2210 months ago

      Just realize it’s a thing, it even has a name for it, apparently it’s called rhetorical shields.

  • ripcord
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    2510 months ago

    I’m not racist, but I really need to clean the garage.

  • @AdmiralShat
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    1510 months ago

    I’m not racist, but a jew stereotype that fits every jew I’ve ever met is eating chinese food on christmas

    • @[email protected]
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      We don’t do it on Christmas, but we do it on Thanksgiving. Also we’re not Jewish. It’s pretty nice.

      There’s a local restaurant with a cheap tri-tip platter that’s damn good, so we do that if I’m not feeling up to a few hours by the smoker at Christmas.

  • DreamButt
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    910 months ago

    Never listen to what someone says about themselves. Instead watch how they act

  • @[email protected]
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    810 months ago

    Like when someone says “I have plenty of X [other ethnicity /sexual orientation/ etc.] friends, but…”