• SokathHisEyesOpen@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    What is “body count” in this context? Does it mean your number of sexual partners? If so, that’s very dismissive and reductive.

        • bane_killgrind@lemmy.ml
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          Not going to list names when I’m asked about my experiences, unless I’m having that conversation with a SO.

          Being respectful of people in general is important. Whatever phrasing that allows me to talk about myself and keeps the other involved people anonymous is fine by me.

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            1 year ago

            Why don’t call them partners, for instance? How’s that not anonymous?

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              It’s to remove the concept of relationships. Stay disconnected from other humans, just get your pleasure and move along.

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                Well, that’s just awful, thanks.