Ope that sucks. And yeah low attendance is a serious plague on new events. When you start one you basically commit to a year or so of being stood up every month

I will say though, people find each other at all ages in this lifestyle. Yeah, being in your 20s makes it easier, I’m not going to act like being an attractive 20 something didn’t contribute to me getting my wife. But I’ve been making out with a hot 50 year old. My girlfriend was in her 30s when we met. And I have friends who I have immense respect for who got together after being widowed. Be yourself and find community where you can and you may find yourself surprised at what you find