Thanks, I’ll do some digging on lemmy. I’ve been on the sync sub for a decent while but I just haven’t been using reddit when I can avoid it.

You’re a beautiful human, thank you!

Has there been more information about that? I think I saw a rumor of it, but no confirmation. I didn’t want to go digging through Reddit after a rumor I could have imagined 😬

This is, of course, just my experience, so I can’t speak for anyone else. I have had a “real” ADHD diagnosis for years and only in the last year or so self-diagnosed a touch of the 'tism. I definitely felt that divide, and looking back, I think the biggest reason for it was that I was really analyzing my interactions through that lens. The really obvious differences - especially the ones involving me putting in extra effort - got to be fairly frustrating.

I don’t know whether you’re looking for advice or commiseration, and no judgement either way, but I’ve found it helpful to remind myself that my brain just works differently and there is essentially zero chance that the person I’m dealing with is even aware of the disparity, let alone intentionally engaging in it. I put a decent amount of stock in intentions and I find that most people I interact with at least intend to act in good faith. That helps me maintain my patience in challenging circumstances. Edit to add: I was just scrolling down through the memes on this /c/ and saw one about intentions and a NT person who “didn’t intend to hurt feelings.” Intentions only matter to me if they can be fluid. Saying something hurtful without mean to hurt doesn’t make it okay. I can forgive if someone actually seems sorry about the pain caused and doesn’t try to brush it off or justify it.

I am also very fortunate to be surrounded by supportive people whom I feel comfortable sharing my self-diagnosis with and unmasking around. Those same people are understanding and patient with me in turn, and they are willing to at least try new and different communication methods/let me ramble.

My experience boils down to this: some people suck, but most mean well, and there are those out there who will continue to be kind and supportive, even if their brains work differently from mine. Seek those people out and try to have patience, because it can be a big adjustment for them too.

If I had to guess, that orientation is just for the keyface slope. I had a tough time getting all my keys comfortable to press and wound up with some wacky looking things (nowhere as clean as this).

Fair enough! Like I said in my previous reply, my first venture into the world of custom or ortho boards was the Ergodox infinity, which I got as a kit on Massdrop. I didn’t have to deal with getting all the little bits like controllers or displays. Everything was included and compatible, which made it really approachable - plus I didn’t do any leds. I definitely felt like I was in over my head at times with the corne, but it was fairly straightforward in the end and I’m really happy with it.

Seconded, that panel looks very clean. Nice job on it.

I had a couple solders on my corne leds that looked fairly good but didn’t work reliably. Iirc, I removed and resoldered a couple connections, but reflowing may well be easier. Even fully removing was pretty quick and easy, so I think you won’t have much trouble, especially knowing which keys are acting up.

Do it! Can’t have too many keyboards, just too small of a desk…

Here is a build guide. I bought my components from Little Keyboards (MX hotswap v3.0.1 kit in purple, gray tint technician case, 128x32 white OLED screen x2, and Elite-C v4 x2). I believe my LEDs came from Amazon, just making sure I matched the sizes in the build guide and whether they were surface mounted (SMD).

I will probably eventually post my first ortholinear, an Ergodox infinity, which is where I got my first real soldering experience (and a bunch of extra Cherry Browns). Neither keyboard was too difficult. My biggest suggestion would be to take your time. I spent a lot longer than average and I think I only had 1 or 2 solders that needed touching up at the end.

In everyday use, I love it. It’s taken a bit of tweaking to get a layout I’m really happy with and getting used to that, but it is very fast and efficient having everything within a key of the home row. For me, the biggest change in my comfort while typing was switching to ortholinear, especially split, and I recommend it to anybody and everybody. If you’re on the fence and not sure about having so few keys, there are other similar boards that have more rows. That definitely eases the transition. I have never been big on using the number row and opt for the 10-key instead. I just have a layer set up to cover that with my right hand just like on a normal board.

They are these. They’ve held up pretty well. I have noticed esdf (instead of wasd) are smoothing out a bit, but not bad overall. Really happy with how they look in person!

Black 108 Key Cherry Profile PBT Double Shot Side-lit Shine Through Translucent Backlit keycaps for MX Mechanical Keyboard Filco (Only Keycap) https://a.co/d/6Cy6JHQ